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L'amour in Christ topic. I'm Kytia L'amour, and in this video, we're talking about, how do I get to know God's voice more clearly? God says that His sheep know His voice, but have you struggled
with discerning His voice versus the enemy's voice versus
just your inner dialogue? If you have, this video is for you. Not that I am an expert, and not that everyone hears
God's voice the same way, but I want to talk about how I got to know God's voice more clearly, what steps did I use,
how long did it take, and just give you some clarity
on getting started with that. So, I posted on Instagram about how I've, over time, learned to hear God's voice (finger snap) very quickly, so that I can obey (finger snap) very quickly, as well,
and I asked you guys, "Would you wanna know
more about that topic?" And you said "Yes, I would love "to know more about that topic," so that is why I am here today. This is all for you. So, let's go back to, rewind,
to when I was in my early 20s. I remember being in a small group. A small group is basically,
when you go to church, there are smaller Bible studies where you will meet with
five or six other people, and you guys will discuss
the topic from church, or something that's been on your heart. So, I had a small group of women, and it was about six or seven
of us, and one of the girls, it seemed like she was hearing
from God left and right. She was like, "Yeah, God told me "to invite this person to
church, and then they got saved. "God told me to call this person, "so I called them, God told me this." And I was like, "God is
not telling me anything "where I know, oh, God
said that right now." I would know what I was supposed to do, what I wasn't supposed to
do, in regards to the Word, but as far as Him telling
me directions for my life, I was like, "How do you get there? "Is she just more holy than me? "What is going on?" So, it took me time, first of all, to stop comparing
myself, because I thought you're supposed to hear an audible voice, and it's supposed to be like,
"Go that way" or something, but not everything is an audible voice or specific instructions. Sometimes things are
discernment or wisdom. Basically, discernment, to me, means that you are able to tell, or
have a spiritual sense, of something that's going to happen, something that you're
supposed to be doing soon, something that you should avoid, or even, you meet someone
for the first time and you're like, "Why don't I like you?" Or you meet someone, and you're like, "Why are we best friends?" This is amazing. I feel like there's something about you. It's like a spiritual feeling. So, for me, that's how
God has worked in my life. I can remember back to
being in high school, and the phone would ring
and I would know who it was, and I would be like, "Oh,
my dad's calling me," or usually, it was if
someone was close to me and they were calling, I could tell. Or my cellphone, nowadays,
sometimes my cellphone rings, and before I see it, I'm like,
"Oh, my mom's calling me." Yeah, that's God. It has to be God. Being in tune with someone like that. Instead of looking at things
like "Oh, it's a coincidence. "Oh, it's a feeling. "Oh, déjà vu." I was like, "There's gotta
be something to this. "This must be a spiritual gift, "cause some people do
have the gift of prophecy, "teaching, or evangelizing, or healing." Some people do just walk
stronger in certain gifts because God wants us to walk together. He wants us to, as a
unified body in Christ, use each other and be on one accord where, you're the hand, I'm the
foot, he's the neck, whatever. We should be all working
for a common goal, but if God gave everybody all the gifts, we wouldn't need anybody. We wouldn't. So, I think for me, even in my marriage, there's certain things where I will have discernment about it. Like, "Oh, this person wants
to work with my husband," and I'm like, "Um, I prayed
about it and God said no." I may not know all the reasons why, and that's taken awhile
to build that trust, where, through time and time again, this has happened, and
whether he listened or not, over time, we were able to see, "Oh, God was trying to avoid this," or, "God definitely told
us to be here today," or something like that. You feel stronger in your faith about, "Hey, we're hearing from the Lord." So, one thing that I started
doing in the beginning, obviously, it had a lot to
do with knowing the Word. If you're not reading the
Bible every single day and memorizing scriptures and making sure you're
applying it to your life, it's not going to sink in, it's not going to become a part of you, because even in the Word, it
says, "The Word is living." It is something that, when you
read it, it's affecting you, the Holy Spirit inside of you. It's teaching you things
and helping you to apply it to your life, and to know what you should and shouldn't be doing, and how to clarify, "What
does this scripture mean? "Is this even pertinent
today in modern times?" Some things, you have to
be studying the Bible, and making sure that you're praying, and even praying to God. Sometimes, we can say, "Oh, God, help me today. "Let it be a blessed day," and then you go out, and
you go about your day. You don't stop and
pause to think about it. One thing for me is, when
I pray, I try to sit still. And, being a mom now, it's a lot harder. I don't have time to be like, "Oh, I'm just sitting here. "I have so much time on my hands." I don't have a lot of time, but before my daughter wakes up, I try to get my stuff
done before she wakes up. So, I read the Bible, I
pray, and then I pause and think about some
decisions I've needed to make, or anything that's been bothering me. Even just like, "God, what do I do today? "What do you need me to do today?" So, by sitting there, you'll
get these thoughts that, as long as they're not bad
thoughts, harmful thoughts, that's the enemy, but,
you will train yourself to start thinking like, "This was not even on my mind, "but this came in and it's in
alignment with God's Word. "It's not telling me to do
something crazy, it's just like, "you should talk to this person today, "or, you should let this thing go "that's been bothering you, or, "you need to seek wisdom or
do research about this thing." And it'll just be like, "I
didn't really think about that," so when you're starting to get
those kind of instructions, take them seriously. In the beginning, it's kind of weird, because you feel like there's so many thoughts flying around, but once you start to pause
and be more intentional about reading your Bible,
praying to God, being still, you'll learn to hear His voice. It'll start to get louder and louder, and you can start acting on things, like, "Call this person today and forgive them," and you're like, "Why would I do that? "This person did this to me, "they don't deserve no forgiveness," and He's like, "Just call them." And then, you call them, and
you have a really great talk. You guys are able to
reconcile some things. Or, even, He's saying, "Let
go of this friendship", or. "Let go of this relationship", or, "Stop doing this, stop doing that," and you're like, "But I need it", or, "I thought it was good for me." And it's just like, "Just
let it go, see what happens." You have to figure out, over time, your strengthening that muscle. You're getting used to
it by using it more, using that faith muscle,
using that discernment, and being able to see how, "Yes, God totally told me this, "because look where it led to." So, that's why it does take time as well, because He might tell you
things are going to happen, or not to do this or to do that thing, and then over time, you're like, "That was definitely Him, "because it let to this, this, this," or, "I let go of all of this," or, "I no longer feel the
burden of that thing." So, it's a constant activity that you have to keep doing in order to have a more solid faith. Another thing that will kill your ability to hear God's voice is when
you have way too much going on. I know there were times where I was volunteering for everything. I had two, three jobs,
I was hardly ever home. I wasn't spending time
with God and the Bible, and you could see, like, you're almost running on
autopilot and you're exhausted. You're very much exhausted, and you're just like,
"I just need to sleep. "I just need to sleep, and then, I'm up "doing the same things
again the next day." You need to pause, and if there are things that you can stop doing, the
world will not stop turning if you don't go to every
birthday party you're invited to, or go out every time your
friends ask you to go to lunch. Like, sometimes, you just have to stop, and that's a season that
I had to go through, even in the past three
years, is God saying, "Look at these relationships you have. "Are they lining up with me? "Are they good for you?" Think about why you're always stressed out talking to this person, or
why you're very irritable when you're around these people, or why you feel zapped of energy when you talk to this person. Think about those things. Just really analyze everything that you're doing
with your time, and say, "Is this building me up or
is this breaking me down? "Is this breaking down my
ability to hear God's voice, "because I'm on the go all the time?" So, don't confuse that with being lazy, and just not doing anything, but really be purposeful with your time, and anything that you commit to, anything that you say yes to, be serious about that, and if you're like, "Oh yeah, that'll be great," and somebody asks you to
come to volunteer at an event and you're like, "Of course I would." Nowadays, what I do is, I'll
give myself a 24 hour period, at the least, to say,
"Should I be doing this? "Would I still be able to get
done everything I need to? "Would I get my sleep? "Would it affect my health? "Would it affect my relationship "with my husband or my daughter?" If any of that stuff is a yes, if it's affecting me in a negative way, I have to decline, or I have to postpone, or whatever the case is, you
need to be making sure that you're constantly filling yourself up and feeding yourself the right thing. Even physically, feeding
yourself the life giving food that you need to, so that
you're not always drained and fatigued and tired, but you're alert. You had your vegetables,
you had your juice, you had your smoothie, whatever it is that you like
that's actually good for you. Make sure that you're feeding yourself, your mind, your body, and your
spirit, life giving things. I think that everybody does
have their different gifts, so, something that God
may be telling you to do. If you're great at teaching, like, "I give instructions and people get it." What is that? Or, "I'm able to really "share the Gospel easily with people." What is that? Or if I pray for somebody to get healed, they get healed really quickly. Or, I feel like I know
what's going to be happening, or coming down the line, in
my life or in their life, and you feel like these are coincidences, or this can't be something that I can keep doing over
and over again, can it? Yes, it can. As long as you are obeying God, and if you're asking God,
"Do you want me to do this? "If so, provide more
opportunities for that. "If so, strengthen my faith,
strengthen my discernment, "strengthen my teaching,
strengthen whatever platform "of influence that I have
so that you can continue "to spread the Gospel and make this world "a better place, because we need you." The workers are few, but
the harvest is plenty. Your relationship with
God needs to be very solid for you to hear his voice, cause some people, it won't be like God telling them instructions, but they'll be thinking, "I'm concerned about this," or, "I don't know what to do about that," and then all of a sudden, they'll get a scripture
that comes to mind, and they're like, "That
applies perfectly to this." But if you're not reading the Word and digesting the scriptures, God's not going to be able to bring that to your remembrance at all. So, one thing that is
definitely very helpful is reading devotionals. Like, let's say you're
going through, for me, I still do this. You're going for a
period where you're like, "Okay, how do I deal with change? "How do I deal with growth? "How do I hear God's voice more clearly? "How do I get rid of fear? "How do I deal with anxiety? "How do I deal with lust?" Anything that you're going through. There's so many devotionals online, or even on your Bible app, if you have a Bible app on your phone. You can search by topic. Marriage, relationships,
hope, fear, anxiety. You can search by word: courage, boldness. And then, you can search
it, and there'll be options that pop up, and then you
choose which one you want to do, and then you read it every single day. The scriptures that they
use in those devotionals will line up with the topic,
so you'll be able to know, "What are some scriptures
that I should meditate on "when I'm dealing with being anxious, "or when I'm dealing with being lonely, "or I'm dealing with depression?" There's a lot of tips and
advice and application that those devotionals will
be able to help you with. So, there's a lot of
things that you can do to draw closer to God, as far
as tools that we have today, but the main thing, though,
is, read your Word everyday, pray to God everyday, be still
and willing to listen to Him. If you feel some kind of voice
or feeling about something, that like I said, aligns with God's Word, is going to be helpful to you, is gonna lead to change in a
positive way, follow it, do it. And as you keep doing that, you're going to get more used to it, and even understanding
what are your gifts? What are things about you that stand out? Are you super compassionate? Are you bold and unashamed of spreading God's word and
telling people about Jesus? Use those gifts wisely, because they are so powerful, and they add to the kingdom
in such a wonderful way, so do not despise your gifts. Do not compare yourself
to other people, like, "Oh, she's able to preach
all over the world, "or she's writing all these books, "or he's hearing from God all the time." Do not compare yourself, and do not become distracted by too many things going on around you. Simplify your life. Minimalize your to-do
list, just focus on God, cause his purpose for you
is the most important thing in your life, and if you
don't know what it is, there's no way for you to fulfill that and reach your God-given potential. So, I hope that this did encourage you, but I would like to pray before we go, and cover you guys,
and come into agreement with the things that you may
be dealing with right now. So, let's do it. Lord, thank you for this time of prayer, that we get to pour into each other. There are people praying
right now, even with me in this video, praying
over me, and we just want to continue to encourage
one another and community that our lives do matter. Everyone's purpose is important. Please help those people
who really are lost, and they're like, "I cannot find my way, "and everyone seems like
they have it together." No, they don't. Most people don't have it together, but with God, anything is possible, and by your strength, by
your words, by your promises, they're gonna be able to
get to the level where, clearly, they hear your
voice, and quickly, they obey what you've told them to do. So, please help them as
they plug into the Word. Help it to be understandable to them. Help them to digest it. Help them to find the right
resources that are gonna help keep them accountable, day in and day out, to be in your word, to be
praying to you, to be purposeful about their walk with you, and that, through days and days and
days and weeks and months, that they'll be able to see significant change in their life. And please just clear
out all the distractions, all the things that the enemy
has planted in their mind, planted in their lives,
planted in their hearts. Please help to renew their
minds, renew their hearts, and strengthen them, and lift them up, so they can live in a holy boldness, really, just doing what
you need them to do. And, I thank you, God, that
you will answer these prayers, and that you love us so
much, and I pray all of this in your Son, Jesus', name, amen. That is what have for today. Thank you so much for joining and for staying and for praying with me. I pray that this really did bless you, and if you have any questions,
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46 thoughts on “THIS IS HOW I LEARNED TO HEAR GOD'S VOICE MORE CLEARLY | L'amour in Christ”

  1. Thank you so much for posting this video! Your words have given me a new sense of hope about strengthening my relationship with God. And thank you for that incredibly beautiful prayer. Much favor and countless blessings for His glory.

  2. You were my answer, you were my message. I came onto youtube for something totally different, but here I am. He has answered EVERYTHING through you. Your gift is truly a blessing. YOU are a gift yourself, well for me that is.

    Thank you

  3. I am just getting started off in my ministry. I started the Youtube channel about 6 months ago. Recently I really feel like God is telling me to put the ministry to the side…I keep hearing the scripture (in my mind) To everything there is a season. I believe He is telling me that for this season to spend this time studying the Bible & developing a deeper relationship with HIM.
    Now mind you, I was struggling during this time trying to decipher is this God guiding me or Satan trying to discourage and trick me😕 I asked God to please give me something solid. Some way I would know for sure it's Him speaking to me.
    The next morning I turned on my Joyce Meyer Ministries daily show to watch…..wanna know first thing she says…." God is trying to tell you it's time to do a new thing. Not get rid of it just set it to the side for now because God is saying "TO EVERYTHING THERE IS A SEASON!!!" THE EXACT VERSE I KEPT HEARING IN MY MIND!!

    P.S. I still have my ministry channel just taking a break from posting my weekly messages. I am still active though so please check it out & PLEASE consider subscribing😘❤💗🎀

  4. A Psalm of Courage

    The Lord is my Good Shepherd who laid down His life for His sheep. I am a part of His flock and will not be afraid. He was there in the beginning and has called me by name. Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil. For I cry out to the Lord and He saves me. Where shall I go where The Holy Spirit cannot find me? For He is the one who goes before me, whom shall I fear? Even death will not have victory for I will be reborn into His resurrection.

    He is the First and the Last, the Beginning and the End, He is my Wonderful Counsellor, my Lord of Lords and Everlasting Father. To Him shall I turn in my darkest hour, for He is with me and shall save me.

    I do not fear anything for He is my Strength and my Shield. He is the author of my salvation, of what should I be anxious? He has made a place for me, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever. He is the living water of which I have drank, I thirst no longer.

    In my moments of peril, He reached out His hand. He is the Rock on which I stand that keeps me out of perilous seas. I cling to my Lord in my time of need for He is mighty, and He saves. I live to worship His name and serve Him the rest of my days, for He is worthy of all praise.

    He is faithful, full of everlasting grace and never-ending love. Nothing can separate me from Him for I am in His hand, what can snatch me out of it?

    I give all my heart, my mind and my soul to my Lord, for all that I am belongs to Him. He is my salvation, my best friend, my Lord and my King.

  5. Oh my beloved sister thank you so much for this clip I really enjoyed it it was sweet it was anointed and it was truthful thank you so much and you are so right so many people wanting to hear the voice of Yah but don't want to take the time and giving that time to him that time in that word and prayer and fasting but thank you so much everything you said was so true God bless you God bless your home God bless your husband and your child God bless you all Shalom

  6. I used to hear from God allllll the time. I really felt his spirit lead me and I would recognize his hand on my life. I believe I stopped hearing from him because I actually began ignoring him. I knew he would be asking me to do, or not do something and I would continuously ignore it because I didn't want to do what he was telling me. Part of hearing God's voice, I believe, is the willingness to respond to what he will ask you to do. When we give our life to Christ, we have to really contemplate what that means. That means, we have surrendered our will over to Him. We are choosing to allow Him to lead our life, to make the choices, to be his hands and feet and fulfill his will. If we ask "God I want to hear your voice!" But are going to be unwilling to respond to it, God is not going to "throw his pearls into the swine". To be used by God is a gift, a privilege. If we reject that gift, God is not going to keep trying to give it to us. He will receive the message that you don't want his gift. That's the way I see it anyway. This isn't the only reason why someone might not be hearing from God, but it could be a possible explaination why you might not be hearing from Him anymore.

  7. This really helped me this morning. I thank you very much for your inspiration. God..Please continue to Bless your children and show them how to come closer to you and hear your calling for them. In Jesus Name I Pray..Amen
    Thank you🙏🏽🌹❤

  8. That was a great message, thank you for sharing. Your presentation has such an amazing flow. A visual gift of Christ shining through you. True princess of the King!! Keep pouring out, it reaches so many!! Thank you

  9. IthankGod for the men and woman of God who take the time to spend in the presence of God so he can allow them to share the truth of God's word on social media thank all of you because of your obedient to hear God I am growing into a better person and a strong believer in my faith in Jesus Christ. Thanks!

  10. I'm about to be in 8th grade this year and one of my main goals is for God to forgive me and for me to make the right decisions while I'm in school and outside of school as well. I just want God to forgive me and for me to just forgive myself and when the sky opens up and God is there I don't want a rock to cry out my name I don't want Jesus to say I know you not, I want Jesus to take me into heaven where my family is

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